All activities have been put to a halt because of the NLC strike…lets just hope the stay at home is worth it. Hope something is achieved from all this not like in the past.
Anyways I guess the compulsory holiday gives me a chance to do some things that the usual hustle bustle of the week wouldn’t allow me to.
So I want to write an article for a man’s magazine see their fly website here MADE and the article is titled “What women want” you know I want to give the guys an insight into our minds, we are not that complicated just misunderstood. Lets makes them understand us, lets squash the myth that women are complex creatures that don’t know what they want, lets tell them what we want so they cant say they don’t know anymore.Lets bridge the gap between the sexes..between venus and mars...lets tell them what we want.
I’d like every girl/woman/lady/female….transvestites not included.. that reads this blog to drop a couple of things you want from your partner or in a relationship…what are those things that you want? Please share…ill quote you in my article but with fake names….but if u can leave ur age that'd be gravy but if u cant…sall good…
It doesn’t matter if another person has already addressed the things you need just leave your own comment okay…Thanx a lot.
I would like to start with a couple of things I need
1. A chastity belt for my man…..okay I kid I kid..i was watching starveillance this morn and they did something on Michael Douglas and zeta Jones…and zeta wanted Michael to wear this belt that shocks him or anyone who makes an attempt for the jewels…lol that’s like so so uncalled for.
Heres what I really think I want.
Attention: Yes I want attention, am not saying abandon every other thing in your life that you had before you met me and make me the all in all but I want that attention I want to know ur thinking of me. I want that call, that visit, that thoughtful text, that listening ear…The same way I give u my undying attention. I feel I deserve urs too.
To be appreciated: I want to know I am of value to u, that u cherish me deeply. I don’t want to feel like just some other girl…like all the other girls you’ve been with. I am the girl I want to be appreciated, the things I do to be appreciated. When I start feeling like I am not appreciated like I am taking for granted then I start feeling like there’s no reason for me to still be in the relationship.
To be loved: this is a no-brainer
Communication: A break in communication leads to a disastrous relationship. Lets talk don’t say I always want to talk. Talking helps…I want him to tell me wants on ur mind even if u say ur not the “Expressive” type. Along the same lines of honesty and openness comes the aspect of communication. Men Believe women can't bear to hear the truth about some things, but id rather have my partner be able to tell me what’s on his mind rather than keeping it till it piles up and one day it comes out horridly.
To be respected: Yeah that is very important to me I want to be treated with the utmost respect. Not talked down to or belittled. That’s a no-no ive been there once and I deserve more than that. Respect begets respect….so if he needs his respect he will treat me with respect too. Treat me like a man with a good head on his shoulder that knows how a woman should be treated.
So those are a couple of things I want…WHAT DO U WANT?
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