Saturday, 2 May 2009

Fun weekend!!! and a main squeeze.

Whoa I cant believe it, haven’t been here in over two weeks, how did that happen? And nobody bothered to check on me..am hurt! But ill be fine…a lot has gone down o!
Okay were do I start 4rm….am back to school..which isn’t exactly a good thing cause I have 8:0am lectures from Monday to Thursday!!! Only good thing is ill be bringing u more ‘thoughts in my head during a lecture posts’….also got my project to think about and spent a week in the library doing research..longest time ive spent in the library I tell u, usually I don’t like reading in the library..too quiet for my liking.




Last weekend was fun and at the same time crazy….went with friends to TAKWA BAY..in the past I swore off that place cause of the boat ride, and my phobia for water.. but I don’t know why I changed my mind and decided to go. It was mad fun,I tell you…the boat ride was kinda scary though…and I was pleading the blood of Jesus all through, but we got their safely and the fun began..couple of bloggers were dere o!! Wells, FBA, Rayo…M.I made it this time..hehehe QUBE..too bad u couldn’t come this time, I know how badly u wanted to meet him…but M.I is short o!!!! There was dancing, there was eating and drinking, bumping and grinding *coughs* Wells *coughs*…..yes o! Wells was grinding like there was no 2mrw..lol…I told wells he cudnt carry me…but the dude carried a whole me…heavier than a bag of rice and wanted to dump me in the water…I was friggin scared ehn…


And yeah I wore shorts..lol…ive never worn shorts in public..lol..i don’t know why..i always thought I had horrible legs…my brothers used to tease me that I had chicken legs..and in ss3 I once cried because of my yams..lol..…but I looked pretty nice..if I do say so myself..well u judge….


After changing at city mall!!



At the beach!


Took my roomies and my friends along…we all had a blast I tell u!








On our way back two boats capsized, people fell into the water and had to be rescued..by then me and the rest of the people on my boat were safely on shore by then..i swear it was some scary shit…cause my friends were still on their way and other people we went with and I was so scared for them but thank God nobody died…so yeah am definitely not going to Takwa Bay ..i shouldn’t have gone in the first place, it was a stupid thing to do..specially with the kind of boats that were used….really really stupid..and ive been having nightmares about it and so are all my friends..i really sat down to think about it recently..lots of what if’s in my head…what if it was in the middle of nowhere and not close to shore their boat capsized..what if what if…what if I was the one…gosh! Well it has happened it has happened..lesson learnt…Takwa Bay is a lovely place if u have a nice boat to take you there!

Yeah so enough fun last weekend….i told u a lot has happened right…so yeah um…well..u know..its like..but..sha..ok ok I met somebody! Ok well , am about to say those four words I don’t really like saying ‘I HAVE A BOYFRIEND’…why don’t I like saying it..because living with girls and all…you find people who carry their relationship status on their head like a title… Moji Bamgboye , Girlfriend of so so and so….they make it seem like the beginning and the end of everything….so I was always put off from saying it…anyways heres how it happened..one of those days on facebook I was down in the dumps..put up some status message..we started chatting and I found out that he was easy to talk to, we had a lot in common and the sexiest part of all..he was intelligent and he reads…anyways at first we were just friends…like really close friends…like friends that send each other 400 text msgs in like 5 weeks….but seriously just friends..had no feelings whatsoever for him and he was also complaining about some chic that broke his heart and how he wasn’t ready for anything.
Plus when we met he wasn’t really my type , mainly cause I was taller n bigger than him and that usually poses a problem for guys (insecure ones) if I might add.. but day by day we became closer and closer and all that seemed unimportant…he was always there to provide a shoulder to lean on an ear to bend….lol..he once listened to me crying for like 2 hours over the phone…but he never complained, he always listened, always cared….and like every one predicted…feelings started developing (isn’t it possible for a guy and girl to be just friends? mcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!!!) so I was doing the whole celeb denial thing ‘we are just friends, nothing more and then some months later they are kissing on the beach…no we didn’t kiss on d beach o!...i don’t do PDA..even though he does.

Anyhow anyhow long story short..i liked him but didn’t tell him cause I didn’t want our friendship to be strained just incase he didn’t feel the same way..though he had been giving me hints that he liked me…but I didn’t want to jump the gun jare..ova sabi has never been my forte..so I just chilled and one day it all came out and he confessed that he’s been dying to tell me but didn’t know how id take it..and bla bla bla..we both lived happily ever after…lol

Anways I can say it feels heavenly being dotted on, like I never liked guys who like me..never ever…I don’t know why..jus turned me off..its usually the jerk off’s I like(and I don’t mean all d guys iv gone out with are jerk offs o!) but usually the ones I really really like treat me like horridly…so much so that I got used to being treated badly that I didnt think anything better existed..silly me!

So being held, acting all googly eyed and lovey-dovey…lol…its new to me..and am trying to get used to it…to someone saying am beautiful, I deserve better than I have gotten and gbo gbo e… I put up this status on facebook a while back.

“They made me believe I was ugly for so long that when he told me I was beautiful I thought he was the liar”

Well they lied.

They lied.

54 comments:

Tyger said...

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Tyger said...

beg me to stop!

lol

okay let me go and read! brb

exschoolnerd said...

lol!!! oya calm down..and go and read!

Tyger said...

ahww!!!!
*singing* its so nice to be loved! aint nothing like the real thing baby.. aint nothing like the reaaallllllllll thing when it comes to you...

so nice to hear you are in a good place love wise.. yeah there are some shitty guys out there! i call them "fuckwitters" in the words of Bridget Jones of Bridget Jones diaries... they fuck with your mind... forgive my french....

enjoy the loving... every girl deserves one....

i havent been to the beach in forever... now summer is here i must dig out my tiniest bikini and head out to brighton *sigh* that would be fun!

olu said...

Fantastic! I can read HAPPINESS in your eyes - or is it bcos I know you are. ::LOL::

genius4life said...

chai...laide u don break my heart oooo... and i was abt askin u out..*sobs*

by d way... why did u go all d way to city-mall jus to change?

musco said...

so happy 4 u!

at least u will stop being a feminist 4 a while.

all d best in ur new found 'kiss'-sorry 'love'!

naija shawty said...

nice to know u have a boo who appreciates you. as for the shorts, if u're looking at ur legs urself, u wud think u have yams but everyone does. so, i'll say when necessary dont hesitate to wesr ur shorts cos they even look good on you

chayoma said...

aww...
Lurve is a beautiful thang!
Nice that you are in a good(or shld i say great) place right now.
gurl,
you be rocking those white shorts..

Temite said...

Oh DARLING,
I am so so so HAPPY for you. Omo, u deserve it jooo! Enjoy and NEVER GO BACK TO TB, sogbo? nonsense. lol

Sting said...

Yay! I'm so excited. How long has it been since u put up that post about never finding the right person. See! You found one and in no time at all.

I wish u all the best in this relationship. May it be all u ever wished, hoped and dreamed of.

Muah!

Sting said...

@musco: What the hell does having a boyfriend have to do with being a feminist? That is a very ignorant statement to make.

Please to spare urself some future embarrassment go and read up on who a feminist is and what feminism is all about instead of continuing to perpetuate the negative stereotype and make urself seem ignorant at the same time.

I don't know if u are a male or a female, but i sure hope u r not a female cos that would be too bad.

Nefertiti said...

:) I am so happy for u o! We absolutely have to kiss a few frogs before prince charming, or else he might pass us by...

PS: Who told u u were ugly, ehn? awon da? *Razzie breaks the stout bottle*

Miss Natural said...

I was wondering where u were, as in serious denial symptoms so I AM GLAD TO HAVE YOU BACK. How does the lovey dovey feeling feel lol, love's always good and i'm glad you're happy. Ha, the weeekend seems cool apart from the fact that water is now one of my biggest phobias, as in even reading it I was scared for you lol. Need to get over it sha, goodluck with project and exams!

Qube The Wordsmith said...

Finally u have put up the post that breaks my heart....*sobbin hysterically* XSN has a BF!!!!

Ahh well shey u told me I culd b second husband abi? Half bread is beta dan pomo....

Qube The Wordsmith said...

N please update more eh?

Don't make me threaten u b4 u update again.....n who was FBA @ Bay? Is he in ur pics? Tell him to come n update jo!

Qube The Wordsmith said...

Won ti gbe iyawo mi lo!!(they have taken my wife away) *cryin like a baby*

Ok I'm calm now

mizchif said...

Hmmm, see Laide all googly-eyed and stuff. I'm happy for you re!!
Plus you looked really nice in your beach outfit oh.

Kenn-Knotty said...

***Laide, take my words to the BANK and cash it...You are as beautiful as you think you are. Period! Shekina!

Osondu Nnamdi Awaraka said...

Hey Laide

I'm happy for you. This ur post is funny as usual. It's why I keep coming back. You gather mind enter boat o! You sabi swim sef? Thank God say no be ur own capsize sha...the hole wey u for leave for Blogville eh... LOL

Enjoy!

BSNC said...

is M.I that short or is it because you are very tall..

i can you see had fun. Thank God they saved those people in time

thats is good. May you and ur boo boo live happily ever after ;)

~Sirius~ said...

Ehn hen!
So that's one of the reasons you've been AWOL- because you have a man...

Well done oh!..hehehe

Aaaah boat cruise, been on on, to the same takwa bay.......it was nice, but never again.
coming back was pretty scary, and the ride felt like it wld never end.

Glad you had fun.

Beulah! said...

I've missed ur posts oh!...welcome back. You posts always put a smile on my face. Thank God there were no casualities in the boat capsizing thing. And congratulations on ur new found LOVE...hmmnn....

Afrobabe said...

Not fair, how come its only the pic with the boys in it that isn't clear??

I must see FBA and wells oh!!!

heyyyyyyyyyyy home girl is in love...how sweet...

LusciousRon said...

See why I don't go on boat rides. I would love to but anything can happen and I don't swim!

Enjoy the relationship. Did you check out any of the books I recommended?

Anyhoos good luck with your project.

Griffin said...

happy for you dear.......
falling for the wrong person who treats you bad is one thing we humans seem not able to over come

Anonymous said...

Happy for u girl.. u deserve all that and more...
hugggzzz
Candy

Woomie O! said...

What I would give for a main squeeze right now!
Oh my dayssss!!!
Lucky you...don't give it your all...at least not yet.
You owe me gist!!!

Thank God I missed the Bay! I'm sure I woulda been in one of the capsized boats and lost my life cuz I sooo can't swim.
Burnt about the MI part sha.

Woomie O! said...

What I would give for a main squeeze right now!
Oh my dayssss!!!
Lucky you...don't give it your all...at least not yet.
You owe me gist!!!

Thank God I missed the Bay! I'm sure I woulda been in one of the capsized boats and lost my life cuz I sooo can't swim.
Burnt about the MI part sha.

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

Girl am soooooooo happy for you
real love is always worth the wait
hope its everything you ever imagined and prayed for

Tay-mee said...

lol..yay more "thoughts in my head during lectures"..and congrats on ur new boo oh, we shall also find boo..lol

flabby said...

aaaaw

i like the way u just chooked the boyfriend thing inside

and yes! u looked good in shorts!

xo

G-FUNC said...

where all this people come from na?
where were they when I was reading all your old posts eh!
where were they when I was saying that Xsn is the best there is,after Vera,and Carlang and Goodnaijagirl,and..........
just kidding you the best XSN
Good for you!you got someone who loves you back,that's awesome!

and who forget you? eh
can you be "forgetted"?
I don't think so

G-FUNC said...

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Lati's Corner said...

i refuse to read this...im too jealous! :-( u had 2 much fun...judging from the pix...n u ddnt take me along! :'(

ineffable said...

ho ho ho and a bottle of rum! a boyfriend! be still my beating heart!

pink-satin said...

ESN and her BF sitting on a tree K.I.S.S.I.N.G!

Mommy said...

...and I'm smiling from ear to ear!

rayo said...

you have a boyfie, hmmn. anyone i know per chance?
lol @wells' grinding, d boy has ja sita oh.

simplidivine said...

first time here, cant believe ive been missing out..absolutely love ur blog..so vibrant..will definitely be back..

Sir Scribbles II said...

Olabode so dis is wat u have been doing behind me back lol...I'm really happy 4 though...me sef need some female attention in my life lol...

Buttercup said...

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww im so happy for u, sweetie!!!! :D

Cappuccine Baby said...

CONGRATS :D Hehehehe

Funny sha, I also hate saying those four words :P

exschoolnerd said...

THANKS YALL FOR YOUR COMMENTS..I WISH I COULD REPLY EVERYONE OF THEM....MEANS ALOT TO ME...THNX!!!

Chari said...

I kinda saw this coming...but yeah thank God for you oh!!!! I think this bloggers hookin up season...you and wells gettin urselves hooked ok oooo!!!

NigerianDramaQueen said...

First of all thank God for sparing your life when the boat capsized...that's some scary ish right there!
Meanwhile, awwwwww ex-school nerd will soon start writing lovey dovey posts...LOL/J/K! Spread the love jare...I'm looking for a summer love!lol

CaramelD said...

You have sexy legs jo! Rubbishes!

Enjoy your new man oh jare, it isn't easy.

OPTIMISTIC_alyzzz said...

Hi laide,
cant believe i finlly found you on blogspot, knew ud be here just didnt know your blog, well sorta fished it from chari and buttercup's blog.
well i am going to spend my whole day raeding all your posts, i knwo u write good stuff,
take care girl
alice

The Girl with the Red Hair said...

Girl so happy for you and it really feels wonderful. Go girl its your time to be happy

RocNaija said...

Great stuff..
They definitely lied.. You should qoute MI for them.. "Roll up in a cab and said Hi Haters! Now bye Haters!!"

Looks like a fun day out at Takwa..
Brought back memories..

Griffin said...

if i was in lagos i'd say i'm jealous but thank God I aint... glad you've got your main squeeze though.....

Chi-Chi said...

O your legs are not bad jo, their a bit skinny! Nuffin rong with that
Eya, such nice post. Me as well, I never get myself to like the guys that like me and the ones are I always have a lil crush on are always far away. I pray one day God would send my own oooooo. Hopefully, I believe him when he tells me I’m beautiful.
Happy for you dear 1